Hello everyone.
no great sexual tale tonight, its wednesday night.
we are heading out tomorrow and i wont have access to a computer for several days ... so i wont be posting again until may 8.

have enjoyed good sex with husband this week. and looking forward to finding some adventure out there ... likely will find some.
ill have a story or two when i get back.

peace
jana

Tuesday night already. goodness.
where does the time go.
almost ready for the trip.. we love traveling, i love traveling.
we are flying though ... and that isnt as much fun to me.
when we get there we'll rent a car and go exploring ... and probably to a club, to explore.

we had a little excitement this week.
a small plane crashed near the golf course on the edge of town.
seems the man flying had a lady passenger who was not his wife ... both he and she were married to someone else.

they both survived but were hurt. someone i work with knows the lady, and said she had told her husband she was out shopping ...

apparently the plane was flying eratically just before the pilot lost control ... he managed to almost land it in a field... almost being the operative word.

now, why would he be flying so eratically ... hmmmmmmmmmm

true story ..
i guess they had some explaining to do to their spouses ..

j

couple of things to talk about today.
ive not had sex with hubby since saturday morning ... im wanting some, and ive not had it with anyone other than him in about a month.
gosh we are slowing down. ... but we have been busy lately and the sexual events have not been happening.

but im really glad we are going away for awhile. we have been looking at some clubs on the internet, and will probably visit some of them. of course hubby and i will be back to our every day thing as well
swingers clubs are good places for playing, though you do usually hook up with a stranger, which is really "whoring it" but it is fun anyway.

usually we will meet another couple there, or find someone we seem to click with and explore the possibilities. the atmosphere is very sexual, so the odds are pretty good. but there is also no pressure .. so you dont have to do anything at all ..

it is an incredible turn-on for me to be in that situation of a club.
at some clubs they let single men in later, and of course they are on the prowl...

well i should have some good stories from that when we get back.

we have been to a few clubs. at one club i had sex four times with four different poeple, that was as wild as i get ... the first was with a couple and we swapped partners .. lots of fun.
then with hubby.
then much later in the evening, when they let the single men in, i let two of them fuck me. not at the same time though/ hubby loved watching that.

the couple was great. we have enjoyed couples mostly at clubs ...
it is an amazing feeling to look over and see your husband pounding away at another woman, while feeling the feeling of someone else pounding you... it just feels good to know he is having a good time as well

when they let the single men in, there was dancing. first one asked me to dance ... we danced close and he was pretty forward with his advances. before the first dance was over his hand was on my behind..
i guess my body language showed i was interested ... didnt take long for him to invite me into one of the side rooms.. hubby joined us and watched .. that guy was very good..

the second one was the same, about half an hour after me and the other one had finished. it was in the wee hours of the morning by then ... the sex wasnt great, but i had had so much that night, ... the wine and the sleepiness ... well, at least he had a good time fucking me.

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WHICH brings me to something i was thinking about ... which is both having a good time, and making sure your partner has a good time.

its probably some sordid thing from the past, but there is a part of me that likes being used physically. its not like bondage or domination ... but more like ... allowing someone to have a good time with my body....
maybe its not a bad thing, i just get turned on knowing that someone else is turned on and having a good time with me ...

or maybe its some of the repression hanging around ... girls arent supposed to like sex ... lol.. well ive learned that i do like it..
and i like for the person im having it with to like it as well.

i do have limits with other people ... but ill do just about anything my husband wants, even if im not too wild about it.
ive learned to enjoy giving oral sex just because he likes it a lot.
we did try anal some time back, it hurt, i didnt like it ... im really glad he wasnt overly impressed with it either .. he hasnt asked again, and ive not offered

its waaaaaaaaaaay off limits to anyone in threesomes we might have ..

just a couple more days till our trip, we leave wednesday evening ... ill probably post two more times before then.

thanks fory our comments.
peace
jana

ive posted some pictures, but before anyone gets excited about that ... let me warn you that there is no sexual content whatsoever in there.
none of them relate to this blog at all. .. just some pics i like.
kinda gives you an idea of who i am apart from the sexual content.
i do have a life apart from sex !

but im not sure anyone wants to read about that

nothing happening in that area today ..

there have been in the past, some wild weekends, especially with the guy who i wrote about on the first day ...
he would come over on friday night and stay till sunday evening and we would have lots and lots of sex ... the three of us. me, him and hubby. basically i was their fuck-toy ... they did it with me as often and as much as they could for the weekend.

thats a fantasy of mine ... to have a weekend, or several days, with maybe 4-5 guys and me .. and them doing sexual things with me all day or all night .. not a gang bang type thing, but just kinda being ... like a sex servant or something ... fantasies are nice too, but not always something you really want to do...

peace
jana

Hello everyone who reads this blog.
its been a week now since i started this. at the time i didnt know where it would go, or if it would go.
im still enjoying it, and still enjoying some comments.

i intend to just keep talking about my sex life, i like writing about that

and of course, that will include a lot of sex with my husband. now we do threesomes and i have sex with other men at times, but .. my husband is still the main one and the one i love.

ive written about "becoming liberated" or getting in touch with my sexuality. it is an interesting thing.
it seems to me, women my age, around 50, usually think they are done with sex, but at that point you can go one of two ways ... either just let it fade away, or develop it.
i see a direct correlation between activity and desire, the more i do it, the more i want.

it used to be poor jim only got it once a week, and if he pissed me off, then not even that ...
now we do something sexual about every day and he loves it ..

this week we were busy and that got in the way some.
we did not do anything yesterday. he was tired when he got home and didnt feel like it. i was in the mood after having written about sexual things. .. but i was content to wait till this morning.

this morning he was rested and ready ..
we had an excellent time in bed ... he licked me until i came, and then he fucked me nice and slow... he lasts a lot longer that way and it was very nice ...
sometimes i like it kinda rough and hard, but nice and slow is nice too.
he pulled out a couple of times when he was about to come, and calmed hiself down, and then started again.
stretching it out like that makes his orgasm more intense and i like for him to enjoy himself

i didnt have another orgam, which was fine. ive finally convinced him that when he and i have sex, it isnt essential that i have many glorious orgasms ... one is sufficient..
just the attention and closeness was great...

after he came i sucked on his dick for awhile and he got hard again, and fucked me doggy until he came again ... it was nice, not as slow as hte first round earlier.
the first round was for me and the second one was for him :)
a good time was had by all

jana