Hello everyone
sorry ive not blogged in several days ... ill try to do better ok :)
ive had a nasty cold, yuck ... we both have had a cold,
hate it when were both sick at the same time, ... no one to complain to and get sympathy from. lol

ive not had any sexual adventures in the last week while being sick ... i can be a tad kinky, but not THAT kinky :)

i mentioned in my last blog that i would write about my experience with a woman ... now ill say up front
(here is the disclaimer, ... the following has blatant sexual themes and langauge, so if you dont want to see it, dont keep reading)

i am not bisexual, gay or anything like that.
call me old fashioned, but when it comes to sex, a hard man is good to find, or something to that effect.

but you know how men are, they may be straight as an arrow, and wouldnt want to even see two men doing anything, but let two women get together, and theyre all excited, ...

there is a couple that we have played with a few times ... sara and warren ... she is slightly bi, or somewhat bi.. and very willing.
after some coercion and plenty of talking, i finally decided to give it a try to please the men if for no other reason.

so when we got together last fall, i agreed to have sex with sara ... or at least to let her do me

we got naked and lay down on the bed together ... we kissed some, which felt kinda strange to me, but it was ok. her hands were all over me, which felt nice... i was kinda glad that she didnt keep kissing my lips though .. but that was ok.

she kissed my breasts and started fondling my pussy with her fingers. now ive got to admit that felt very nice... and the addition of her long hair falling over me, was interesting..
i could tell the men were enjoying it,...
after some time i felt a finger, then two, inside my pussy, and rubbing against my clit.
that felt very nice and as she kept doin that, i forgot that she was a SHE ..
then she started licking my pussy and that was awesome .. she really knew how to do that.
she used a finger and her tongue in me at the same time, and got my clit into a wonderful bind ... oh yea.
well i guess anyone who knows what to do down there, is ok. and who would know better than someone with the same equipment ?

i didnt really have an orgasm, but i got close, and it was fun once i forgot who it w as that was down there.

but then it was my turn... ive neve eaten a pussy
but i know what i like, so i did that.
i licked the edges until it got real wet, and then plunged my tongue as deep into her as i could...
i heard her sigh, and felt her start to breath heavy.
i kept licking until her body bucked and shook, and she had a nice orgasm...

she was happy and i was happy it was done and wanted one of the men to fuck me as soon as possible.
as it turned out, i did it with my hubby and she did it with hers... after watching us play, they were ready...

so that part i liked a lot.

so thats my bi experience, ... i tried it ok :)
i just dont think im real eager to try it again, though if my hubby begged and pleaded enough, i might give it a try.

but ill take my hubby, or another good man, anyday..

jana

Greetings everyone.
i did get a little flack from a few readers .. .so with that in mind..
here is a disclaimer.
this post contains GRAPHICAL SEXUAL CONTENT about SEXUAL ACTS .. so if you don't want to see it, don't keep reading.

ok with that done.
its saturday morning, and im feeling really great. i just had two hours of great sex with my husband, and have been outside enjoying a beautiful day for a little bit since then. i really like starting a saturday like that ... being on the receiving end of some great (here comes a graphical word) fucking ... now i do participate, but i also like to just let myself go and and relax at times.

im still a bit in that state of euphoria a woman feels after having had great sex ... mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm lol. there's something about the body chemistry involved in having had a couple of orgasms ... must raise the level of endorphins or something ..

now he has always been a pretty good lover, but since we started swinging, he takes even more care to make sure i am pleased. we really do try to please each other, so it normally means we both have a really good time. This encourages both of us to keep up that effort ... pun intended :)

when having sex with other men, i always practice safe sex ... no exceptions. they all have to wear a condom.
of course husband doesnt, he is the only one who doesn't and the only one who gets to come inside me .. and i really like that.
but this morning was a bit different. we soemtimes use a condom ..
it adds some lubrication, and it makes his dick less sensitive .. which means he can screw a whole lot longer before he comes.

sometimes i do like rough sex, just to be pounded ... fucked hard .. its a great rush ..
but this morning, it was the opposite of that.
it was nice, slow, gentle intercourse ... real love making .. not "fucking" at all really.

he spent a lot of time kissing me, all over.. a lot of time licking my tits.. and pussy of course. i had a very nice orgams with his tongue in my soaking wet pussy ... i was ready to feel something else there by then.

then he reached for a rubber and i knew what was on his mind. i smiled my approval and laid down on my back ... legs spread and relaxed ..

he put the rubber on and entered my slowly .. on top of me.. very slowly going in and out .. yummmm.. kissing my lips softly too .. he was in a lovemaking mood...
i was too by then.

(i do appreciate a good fucking as much as anyone, but i also appreciate a session of passionate lovemaking as well)

he slowly pumped my pussy with his dick .. in and out slowly, and kissing my lips and face softly. i was kissing back of course, my legs around him just enjoying the pulsating rythm..

when it started getting really aroused he stopped in order to cool down ... so he could fuck longer .. didnt want to come.. he did that for a long time... slow fucking until he was about to come, then stop for a minute or so ...
this means i get screwed longer and he gets to do it longer.
but the long slow fucking is so erotic ..

then we both get on our side .. its like a scissors type position .. and he enters me that way .. short little strokes then, still slow and extremely erotic.

it gets me to almost an orgams, and keeps me at that state .. its wonderful .. he stopped once or twice to regroup. and did this for a great long time.

after over an hour of this .. i whispered "im ready"
at that he pulled out and licked my pussy again, harder this time, i had a great orgams ... so intense after staying aroused that long.

then it was his turn.
i pulled the rubber off his dick an started to suck it .. he was hard as could be and waiting to explode .. i continued to suck, sucked harder as he moaned .. and i could tell he was about to come.
i took his dick as far into my mouth as i could without gagging ... im no deep throat queen ... but i do what i can.

he shuddered a bit, and moaned, and i felt his come starting to squirt into my mouth.
now ill be the first to admit, come is not a pleasant thing to have in your mouth .. really i dont like it, but it pleases him, so it makes it worthwhile..
i started sucking then as hard a i could .. and swallowing his come as fast as i could. . you dont taste it so much if you swallow quickly. and he loves that.
there were three or four gushes of it .. and i got it down pretty quickly. ....... just in case youre curious, i do at times let other men come in my mouth, but i dont swallow for them.. usually i dont let them come in my mouth.

i then kept sucking him more slowly until his dick got soft.

i got on top of him then and kissed his face and neck while stroking his dick with my hand... gradually it got hard again ..and i sucked him some more.
while i sucked him, he put a finger or two in my pussy and rubbed it to get me wet again.
in a bit he asked me if i was ready .. and i said yes.

he got on top of me again, missionary style, and fucked me without a rubber. again relativly slowly, more just enjoying each other.
it was so good.
and while going slow, he lasts a really long time ..
i didnt manage to come while he was in his second round of fucking me, but i got very close.
i was very close when i felt his body quiver and shake, and his come shoot inside me ..
after he came, he used his fingers to bring me to another nice orgams.

so sweet
we just lay there together for a good while enjoying the moment.

i got up and went outside and checked on my flowers, they are doing beautifully .. and now im here at the puter ...
feeling vaguely horny again after having fucked my husband and writing about it ... i wonder if he would be up for .....

ah well.
so while we are swingers, as ive said, most of my sex is with my spouse .. but i will write about other men some soon.

i have had only little experience with other women .. im not really bi at all .. but have tried it.
maybe ill write about that next time.

peace ...
jana

ive received several comments on my last post, thanks everyone :)
based on that, i had a question.
what do you think about using graphic words ... fuck, pussy, cock ... sucking dick ... etc., ?
ill admit in a sexual context, those words are at turn on for me ... though i dont really care for them to be tossed about publicly so much .
so maybe im inconsistent ..
for instance ... in bed with my husband, its a turnon to hear him whispter "i want to fuck you" ..
but .. on the street, someone saying "fuck you bubba" ... is not.

but i was just curious as to what you all think ..
in this type of posting, is more graphical better ?
or does it just seem like gratuitous profanity ?

jana

Half the week's nearly gone by and ive still not recovered from our trip. It was a good trip, but it just takes time i guess, to get settled back down.

I noticed a couple of people took offense at my writing the last installment. Yes, we are swingers. We have sex with people other than our spouses. Thats what this blog is about. I dont mean to offend anyone, but if youve read this far, you know what its about ...

So with that disclaimer.

We did take the trip to visit with hubbys family, but another part of the trip was to have some sexual adventures.

We went to a swingers club in CHarlotte, North Carolina, which was a neat experience.
For those that do not know, a swingers club is a place for couples to meet and ... do what comes naturally. They usually dont allow singles, mostly because there are hundreds of single guys out there cheating on their wives.
We dont feel what we do is cheating, because we both know, and both approve.

It is true that I'm usually the one having extra curricular sex, but Hubby gets some :)

We found this club which sounded nice. There were lots of people there. THe crowd was a bit young looking, but not too young. We are middle aged people, around 50, so we dont really want to party with people in their 20s.

Most swingers we have met are in their 40s and 50s.

This club had a "public play" room, which means, people just go in there and do whatever. you could have multiple partners in there... basically, just whatever feels good, and whatever any other person will allow. Its a spectacle, but not our cup of tea. We gave it only a short glance and went to the dance area.

A nice lady asked hubby to dance, and he accepted. THey hit it off very well, and i could tell something was going to happen.
In awhile they stopped dancing and hubby asked me if i might be interested in playing with them, Well she brought her husband over, and he seemed nice.
We went off to a nice corner and talked about what we might like to do.
We decided that we would do "soft swing" which is a r-rated version of swinging. It involves doing foreplay with hte other person's partner, perhaps some oral sex., and then returning to your spouse for the actual sex act.
So that is what we did.

We paired off for little while, with the men giving oral to the women. That was very nice :)
THen the women gave a bj to the guys. I gave a nice one to the husband of the lady, and I was able to watch her suck on hubby's cock.
Thats always fun.

Then me and hubby got back together and we had a great time screwing.
And we watched the other couple do the same.

Well thats not as excting as some adventures have been, but its about hte best i can do for right now.
Maybe this one wont offend anyone :)

jana

Greetings everyone.
Have returned from my trip. Funny thing how, a vacation is supposed to relax you, but i really feel exhausted .
we had a great time, and some nice sexual adventures as well.
Ill be writing about them for a few days.

one thing we did was hook up with a couple we had met on the internet, on another site. we stopped to visit them along the way.
They were really cool people, just as we thought they would be.

we went to a hotel and freshened up and then went to their house to visit. they have two great dogs, labs. no, we are not into animal play lol, so dont even think it. but they were nice dogs.

we sat in their living room, had some wine and idle chat. from our emails and chats online, we were pretty sure we wanted to play with them. when we met them, that thought was only confirmed.
Ken was tall and well built. slight beard, very handsome. Ann was shorter, lovely eyes and great breasts.

after some chat, ken came over and sat beside me and put his arm around me. he looked over at Jim, who just smiled. he went towards Ann and the two of them sat on another sofa together.

Ken started kissing my neck, and that felt very nice. soon i was returning his kisses .. and we really got into some nice slow kissing.
Jim and Ann were doing the same on the other small sofa there in the living room.
it was a nice makeout session for 20 minutes or so.
I felt his hand reach inside my blouse, and after undoing a couple of buttons, his fingers gently pinched my nipple... that felt nice.
his hand was massaging my breast and i laid my hand on his leg and stroked his thigh ... as though i were searching for another point of interest :) we continued kissing, he is an excellent kisser. i started to think about what else he might be able to do with that tongue.

we had already talked aobut our likes and dislikes, and what we might like to do, and with hte making out, it was pretty clear that we wanted to progress.

soon Ann spoke up and suggested we all go to the bedroom. we all agreed and headed in that direction. after some chat, we realized that jim and ken are both heavily into watching, so we decided to go one couple at a time.

a toss of the coin determined that jim and ann would go first. ken and i sat on a loveseat by the wall, jim and ann got naked and got into bed.
jim started kissing her neck, and sucked on her nice breasts for a good while. he started rubbing her thights and hisfingers found their way to her pussy. he started stroking the outside of her pussy and she moaned.
then he ate her, licked her until she screamed .
she then sucked him for awhile. and put a condom on his penis.
he started out on top of her, nice and slow screwing...
after some time, he got her up and did her doggy for a good while.
he pounded her faster and faster until he came inside the rubber.
he gave her another orgasm with his fingers ... the two of them lay on the bed breathing softly after they had finished.

then it was time for me and Ken.
while jim and ann were fucking, ken had been gently stroking my pussy with his fingers, and i was soaking wet.
so we started with me sucking his cock. he had a nice dick, probably average length and thick ... i sucked him until he got very hard. ..
then i put the rubber on his cock with my mouth ... thats kinda fun and men always like that lol.

he then used his tongue and fingers to manipulate my pussy into a great orgasm .. i came with a shudder and a shake .. it was very nice.
he then had me get on my hands and knees and did me doggy style for a long time.
it felt very nice, having him stroke me from the back. it was easy to watch jim and his reaction while this was happening. he and ann continued to touch each other and i could tell neither o them were done.

after some time, ken let me get on top and i rode him cowgirl :)
thats always fun. i managed to come, while riding his dick.
he then got on top of me and fucked me hard missionary style .. and he came with great enthusiasm lol ... it became a pretty hard fuck, which was great ..
soon as he came, i asked him to make me come again with his fingers, which he gladly did.

from there we paired up with our spouses and played on the bed together, .. all for of us, but we had sex with our own spouses for the second round.

there was some other touching between couples as well.
when jim was ready to come in me i was kissing ken, which was fun ..

after that, we all just lay there relaxing for a good while.
another glass of wine .. some more chat and then we got dressed and drove to our hotel ...
we were tired , but jim fucked me once more at the hotel before we went to sleep ... when he watches me fuck, it makes him so horny he just has to do me again lol ...

so it was a great evening of sex, and we were not even at our destination yet.
the next morning we got up early, and were on the road again by 10 or so. a second day of driving ... which was all driving.

that was a great day
tomorrow ill write about our visit to a club.

peace
jana