couple of things to talk about today.
ive not had sex with hubby since saturday morning ... im wanting some, and ive not had it with anyone other than him in about a month.
gosh we are slowing down. ... but we have been busy lately and the sexual events have not been happening.
but im really glad we are going away for awhile. we have been looking at some clubs on the internet, and will probably visit some of them. of course hubby and i will be back to our every day thing as well
swingers clubs are good places for playing, though you do usually hook up with a stranger, which is really "whoring it" but it is fun anyway.
usually we will meet another couple there, or find someone we seem to click with and explore the possibilities. the atmosphere is very sexual, so the odds are pretty good. but there is also no pressure .. so you dont have to do anything at all ..
it is an incredible turn-on for me to be in that situation of a club.
at some clubs they let single men in later, and of course they are on the prowl...
well i should have some good stories from that when we get back.
we have been to a few clubs. at one club i had sex four times with four different poeple, that was as wild as i get ... the first was with a couple and we swapped partners .. lots of fun.
then with hubby.
then much later in the evening, when they let the single men in, i let two of them fuck me. not at the same time though/ hubby loved watching that.
the couple was great. we have enjoyed couples mostly at clubs ...
it is an amazing feeling to look over and see your husband pounding away at another woman, while feeling the feeling of someone else pounding you... it just feels good to know he is having a good time as well
when they let the single men in, there was dancing. first one asked me to dance ... we danced close and he was pretty forward with his advances. before the first dance was over his hand was on my behind..
i guess my body language showed i was interested ... didnt take long for him to invite me into one of the side rooms.. hubby joined us and watched .. that guy was very good..
the second one was the same, about half an hour after me and the other one had finished. it was in the wee hours of the morning by then ... the sex wasnt great, but i had had so much that night, ... the wine and the sleepiness ... well, at least he had a good time fucking me.
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WHICH brings me to something i was thinking about ... which is both having a good time, and making sure your partner has a good time.
its probably some sordid thing from the past, but there is a part of me that likes being used physically. its not like bondage or domination ... but more like ... allowing someone to have a good time with my body....
maybe its not a bad thing, i just get turned on knowing that someone else is turned on and having a good time with me ...
or maybe its some of the repression hanging around ... girls arent supposed to like sex ... lol.. well ive learned that i do like it..
and i like for the person im having it with to like it as well.
i do have limits with other people ... but ill do just about anything my husband wants, even if im not too wild about it.
ive learned to enjoy giving oral sex just because he likes it a lot.
we did try anal some time back, it hurt, i didnt like it ... im really glad he wasnt overly impressed with it either .. he hasnt asked again, and ive not offered
its waaaaaaaaaaay off limits to anyone in threesomes we might have ..
just a couple more days till our trip, we leave wednesday evening ... ill probably post two more times before then.
thanks fory our comments.
peace
jana