Hello everyone who reads this blog.
its been a week now since i started this. at the time i didnt know where it would go, or if it would go.
im still enjoying it, and still enjoying some comments.

i intend to just keep talking about my sex life, i like writing about that

and of course, that will include a lot of sex with my husband. now we do threesomes and i have sex with other men at times, but .. my husband is still the main one and the one i love.

ive written about "becoming liberated" or getting in touch with my sexuality. it is an interesting thing.
it seems to me, women my age, around 50, usually think they are done with sex, but at that point you can go one of two ways ... either just let it fade away, or develop it.
i see a direct correlation between activity and desire, the more i do it, the more i want.

it used to be poor jim only got it once a week, and if he pissed me off, then not even that ...
now we do something sexual about every day and he loves it ..

this week we were busy and that got in the way some.
we did not do anything yesterday. he was tired when he got home and didnt feel like it. i was in the mood after having written about sexual things. .. but i was content to wait till this morning.

this morning he was rested and ready ..
we had an excellent time in bed ... he licked me until i came, and then he fucked me nice and slow... he lasts a lot longer that way and it was very nice ...
sometimes i like it kinda rough and hard, but nice and slow is nice too.
he pulled out a couple of times when he was about to come, and calmed hiself down, and then started again.
stretching it out like that makes his orgasm more intense and i like for him to enjoy himself

i didnt have another orgam, which was fine. ive finally convinced him that when he and i have sex, it isnt essential that i have many glorious orgasms ... one is sufficient..
just the attention and closeness was great...

after he came i sucked on his dick for awhile and he got hard again, and fucked me doggy until he came again ... it was nice, not as slow as hte first round earlier.
the first round was for me and the second one was for him :)
a good time was had by all

jana

for anyone who cares to answer
on the right, there is a list of recent posts, and there are little astericks beside them, and they are different colors ..
does anyone know what the different colors mean ?
jana

Hello everyone
i really do enjoy getting comments and notes from folks, so keep em coming.
and if you want to get into some discussions, that would be fun too.

there are a few swinger blogs out there, not many, but they are fun.

we are getting ready for our trip, so no swinging, or threesomes, in the works this weekend. i guess threesomes are swinging, but we tend to think of swinging as couples exchanging partners.

the last time we had a threesome, was about a month ago, during the week. usually works out best that way.
one day my husband asked me if i wanted a threesome ... well i must have been being bitchy or something, ... cause he seemed to think i needed .. ummm something.
it is true that i do tend to get grouchy if i start feeling like ive not had my fill ... so to speak.

so he called up one of my former playmates. there are single guys out there who are only too happy to "service" middle aged women :)

so he called up dan and made a date. hubby always takes care of planning sexual encounters ... of course by that time we have met with them a few times, talked a lot and all that, so we know what to expect. we have all sorts of ground rules and so forth. everyones expectations are spelled out and all activities are agreed upon in advance ...

so he arrived around 6 p.m. here at our house - we usually dont entertain at our house, but sometimes we do -
we sat in the living room for awhile talking, had some wine...
dan looked at jim as if he were asking permission, and jim nodded toward me and smiled, which was giving permission.
he came and sat beside me and put his arm around me. we kissed for a few minutes and he was masaging my thigh ...
i asked him if he would like to go to the bedroom, and he agreed.
the three of us went to the bedroom. jim was with us of course, he smiled and sat in a chair to watch.
Dan and I took our cloths off and we kissed some more.
he lay beside me kissing me and touching me all over. my thighs, legs, ass,belly .. breasts :) everywhere
also kissing me a lot... he remembered that i liked that.
he also spent a good bit of time licking and sucking my breasts, which is something i like a lot.

i looked over at jim, who was just smiling ...

dan licked me to a nice orgasm, and then used a finger to bring me to another one. then he rolled over and asked me to suck his dick.
i did so gladly, and licked it for a time before finally putting it in my mouth .. just teasing him ..
finally i did give him some oral satisfaction ...
but i also wanted to fuck, so i told him i didnt want him to come and he agreed.
so before he got too excited he stopped me and started kissing me again.

i looked over at jim who was smilling and had his dick out in his hand rubbing it ...we smiled at each other and i turned my attention back to dan who was stroking my wet pussy with his fingers.

he asked me what i wanted to do, and i said i wanted to ride him, so he got on his back and let me get on top
i lowered myself onto his dick and bounced up and down ... like ive said, i love ride em cowgirl ... did that for a long time.
i rode him until he came ... he got up and went to clean up and take the condom off ...

jim then came over to the bed and told me to get on my hands and knees, and he entered me from the back and did me doggy style.
that was great ... he pinched my nipples some, which really excites me when im being "dogged"

dan just watched ...
jim finished after some time. i was still very aroused but had not reached climax. jim used his fingers and tongue to bring me to a nice orgasmic state ...

by then dan was ready for seconds.
with a fresh condom on, he got on top of me to fuck missionary .. i like that as well ...
it is great to feel someone on top of me, pushing down on me an the feeling of a nice dick in there as well ... mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

anyways, he fucked me a long time. every now and then i would look over to jim and we would smile at each other. he says watching this is extremely arouseing for him ...

when dan finished, he got dressed and left, as we had agreed earlier.
and jim came for seconds and we had agreat time just screwing.

thats how threesomes usually go.
sometimes the guys gang up on me, but usually its more a take-turn sort of thing. two guys fucking me can usually really satisfy me for a long time.

well thats it for today
just thinking of this has got my juices flowing ... hope hubby gets home soon lol... he better be ready.

jana

I was thinking about traveling and remembered a good story from a couple of years back.
You may recall from an earlier post, that there was a time when i was having an affair while my husband and i lived apart. husband didnt know at that time,and i was still in the process of becoming a liberated person.

anyways. one time my husband was flying back home for a week or so. the airport was an hour away, and the flight was coming in pretty early, so i decided to head up the night before and spend the night and pick jim up at the airport the next morning. ok, jim is my husband.
lover offered to go with me, to spend the night even, and of course partake in a little fun. we had never spent the night together, so i thought it might be fun.

we drove in seperate cars, of course i didnt want him to be with me when i picked up jim at the airport.

so i arrived at the hotel room about 8:30 in the evening, took a bath, put some nice smelling things on, as well as some nice lingerie ... and waited.
i guess i got ready too early, and started getting bored in a little while. after some time, i started to play with my self. i started with my small breasts and massaged them, felt my nipples start to get hard.
i then started rubbing my pussy with my fingers ... that started to feel good.
i explored my body to see what i liked and what i didnt like ... it was interesting. i guess i had never really done that before. i didn't come, but i was very aroused by the time lover arrived.

by the time lover arrived i was ready to roll.
i let him in and he was pleasantly surprised to see me in sexy lingerie and in an obviously aroused state.

"I started without you" I told him.
"I can see that," he said with a smile, ... and sat down the jug of wine he had brought. we never got around to the wine.
it was probably 9:30 by then.

he took his clothes off, then hugged me and kissed me.
i went down on my knees and started sucking his cock. he moaned with pleasure and i continued doing that for awhile.
a little later he laid me down on the bed and used his tongue and hands to explore every part of me. our sex had usually been relatively rushed, but this night, he was free to take his time.

he licked my neck, mybreasts, my belly, my arms ... my legs and yes my pussy.. it was great. some nice massage in there as well.
i was incredibly aroused and he teased me by continuing with foreplay ... me made me beg for it, but i kinda liked that as well.

he started out entering me from behind and we did it doggy style for a long time. that was lots of fun, feeling him slap against my behind an d feeling his cock thrust into me ... men can get more power behind the thrust that way, makes rough sex even greater eh ..

this is the guy that i said could go forever, and he could.
after about half an hour of doggy, he laid down on the bed and had me get on top. i love ridem cowgirl :)
so i rode him, facing him, for about half an hour. i came twice.
it was great just bouncing up and down.
then he got on top of me and fucked me that way for another half hour or so.
by then i had come several times and he was getting tired ... so i finished him off with my hands and mouth ...

we drifted off to sleep in each others arms after midnight .. exhausted but very comfortable.
the next morning, i had to pick my husband up at the airport at 9 .. we woke at 7 and lover wanted to fuck me some more, so i let him.
this time it was all missionairy position. it felt very good, but i had trouble coming... finally finished him off again with my hand.

we finished around 8:15 or so, and I had to hurry to get myself ready to go to the airport .. i didnt have time to shower. just tried to wash up a bit, comb my hair back into a pony tail and off i went.

i greeted jim with a great big hug and kiss at the airport, he was glad to see me too. i had to be glad and enthusiastic, because if i wasnt,id go crazy with guilt.

anyways, i told him i had come up the night before and stayed in a hotel - leaving out the part about all the sex of course - and told him checkout time wasnt until noon ...
he took the hint and agreed. we picked up his luggage and went back to the hotel.
he did remark that it was strange that i had not made up the bed, cause i usually do that.
he also noticed the unopened bottle of wine, but i saw him think better of commenting on it ...

but i was all over him. i nearly raped him so to speak. i made itclear to him that i wanted sex and i wanted it NOW ...
he was really shocked to see me so eager, but he went with it and enjoyed it.
we had a very nice time in bed. some seriously hard fucking. he fucked me so hard it hurt, but i really got off on the pain that day..

it was really strange to be in bed with a man fucking, realizing that i had been fucking a different man in the same bed only an hour or so before ... that was a feeling that stuck with me... kinda sick, kinda sad, but very very sexual and hot. lol
the same sheets even, wow...

of course this was before threesomes.
jim loved the new me, said whatever had gotten into me , he sure liked it ... i wondered at the time if he would have said that if he had known "What had gotten into me"

that was the first time i ever had two men the same day ... it was scary at the time .. but also very exciting, ...

peace
jana

Greetings everyone
not sure what im going to write about today.
i have lots of stories from the past that i could write about.
We are busy with life at the moment and are not doing much as far as extracurricular sex goes.
I am feeling kinda edgy though, and I think I am about ready for a little extra :)
I have hubby some oral stimulation this morning before breakfast, Im really good at that,... we all need a talent yes ?
i really do enjoy sucking dick.
anyhow, he enjoyed it and I enjoyed him enjoying it.
hopefully that will have him inspired for when he gets home from work.

but as I said we are busy these days. we are getting ready to go on a vacation to the east coast, visit his family and generally do some exploring. Usually we find some sort of swingers club and have a little fun too.

clubs are fun. talking about swingers clubs
we dont get to do that much because of where we are, but we always have a nice time. the sexual atmosphere is incredible, and that in itself makes a visit worthwhile. sometimes we have gone and not done anything with anyone else, it just got us fired up for each other.
we will be heading out next thursday and be gone for a week and a half.

we have not been to any in the real big cities, where i hear they are really wild ... they have things like group sex rooms and all that .. not sure i want to do that. im more a one on one type person

ill post a story in a minute or two

jana