Half the week's nearly gone by and ive still not recovered from our trip. It was a good trip, but it just takes time i guess, to get settled back down.

I noticed a couple of people took offense at my writing the last installment. Yes, we are swingers. We have sex with people other than our spouses. Thats what this blog is about. I dont mean to offend anyone, but if youve read this far, you know what its about ...

So with that disclaimer.

We did take the trip to visit with hubbys family, but another part of the trip was to have some sexual adventures.

We went to a swingers club in CHarlotte, North Carolina, which was a neat experience.
For those that do not know, a swingers club is a place for couples to meet and ... do what comes naturally. They usually dont allow singles, mostly because there are hundreds of single guys out there cheating on their wives.
We dont feel what we do is cheating, because we both know, and both approve.

It is true that I'm usually the one having extra curricular sex, but Hubby gets some :)

We found this club which sounded nice. There were lots of people there. THe crowd was a bit young looking, but not too young. We are middle aged people, around 50, so we dont really want to party with people in their 20s.

Most swingers we have met are in their 40s and 50s.

This club had a "public play" room, which means, people just go in there and do whatever. you could have multiple partners in there... basically, just whatever feels good, and whatever any other person will allow. Its a spectacle, but not our cup of tea. We gave it only a short glance and went to the dance area.

A nice lady asked hubby to dance, and he accepted. THey hit it off very well, and i could tell something was going to happen.
In awhile they stopped dancing and hubby asked me if i might be interested in playing with them, Well she brought her husband over, and he seemed nice.
We went off to a nice corner and talked about what we might like to do.
We decided that we would do "soft swing" which is a r-rated version of swinging. It involves doing foreplay with hte other person's partner, perhaps some oral sex., and then returning to your spouse for the actual sex act.
So that is what we did.

We paired off for little while, with the men giving oral to the women. That was very nice :)
THen the women gave a bj to the guys. I gave a nice one to the husband of the lady, and I was able to watch her suck on hubby's cock.
Thats always fun.

Then me and hubby got back together and we had a great time screwing.
And we watched the other couple do the same.

Well thats not as excting as some adventures have been, but its about hte best i can do for right now.
Maybe this one wont offend anyone :)

jana